Category: Relationships

Video ~ A father helping his daughter deal with her anger

 

Editor’s note:  This is so beautiful, humbling and insightful.  

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This father is helping his daughter deal with her anger

Parenting done right ❤️

Posted by VT on Wednesday, December 13, 2017

Better for Being Broken #5

 

Editor’s note:  I think we can all relate to this one…

 

March 6, 2018  Amy Jones

If I let someone get to know the real me, what would they think?

I learned to hide the real me.

I believed no one would like the real me.

I felt unlovable because the real me did not deserve to be loved.

I began experiencing fear, shame, self-judgment and trust issues through the belief pattern that I could never be the real me.

I allowed these problems to be a controlling factor in the way I lived my life because what I cared about most of all were my family’s acceptance and approval. I continually sought their advice and opinion while sacrificing my own feelings, thoughts, experiences and choices in pursuit of illusive unconditional love. I wore the mask of someone who I thought would make them happy. I hid behind shyness trying to figure out who I needed to be to please them. Over time, I learned to be someone else.

After many years of therapy, I recognized this was a pattern in my family. This deep-rooted need for approval, acceptance and love from a parent, a spouse, a friend or an authority figure. I watched it destroy self-respect, taint relationships, and cause self-sabotage. There were countless examples of the belief that everyone you love will eventually leave you or disappoint you so “better to treat people poorly now to force them to leave sooner rather than later”.

And yet, the devil we know is much more powerful than the devil we don’t know. So, year after year, I continued this pattern of needing approval and acceptance from everyone around me. I allowed myself to be treated poorly, looked the other way and made excuses so that I could receive the love I always wanted. I deferred to the needs of others for so long that I forgot I had needs of my own.

The longer I wore this mask, the more faded I became.

I lost who I was.

I believed my opinions didn’t matter.

I sacrificed my needs for the needs of others.

I judged myself.

I lived in fear, self-loathing and pain.

Many of us are broken. Experiences change our perspective and transform us: birth, death, divorce, disease, suicide, marriage, weight loss, weight gain, change in financial status, disappointment and fear as well as a host of other situations and circumstances.

These heart shattering situations are so impactful, they can affect us for the rest of our lives; leaving a deep and sometimes lasting scar.

In the aftermath of heartbreak, I am on a journey to heal my heart. Follow me as I create my NEW LOVE story on Facebook & Instagram.

©Amy Jones, 2017 – All Rights Reserved
Do Not Reproduce Without Express Written Consent

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A Vision for Rerouting our Aggressions

 

The Vision Alignment Project

A Vision for Rerouting Our Aggressions

We see a world where all those who are aggressive and war-like by nature now have an abundance of other avenues and arenas in which to express their aggression so as not to involve harming other people in any way whatsoever.

Accordingly, we see more sporting events and games which are non-violent made available, more creative and artistic endeavors which require us to put our mental energies and emotional passions to good use, and more building projects that encourage us to work constructively, instead of destructively.

Now, all people walk this Earth freely and fearlessly because we have implemented a variety of new ways of rerouting our aggressions into positive, purposeful, helpful, fulfilling and enjoyable means for expressing ourselves. Consequently, sanity and safety have returned to their rightful place in our daily experience.

 
As you line up with this Vision, it becomes your Vision too! 
You can align with this Vision
by double-clicking the “YES!” Button below.

 

Clicking the YES Button will also show you the Total Alignments.

THE MORE PEOPLE WHO ALIGN WITH OUR VISIONS
THE QUICKER THEY WILL BECOME A REALITY FOR ALL OF US.
WE INTEND OVER THREE MILLION ALIGNMENTS!

FOR THE HIGHEST GOOD OF THE UNIVERSE,
MOTHER EARTH, OURSELVES AND EVERYONE EVERYWHERE

Dedication To Relationships

 

Relationships never end.  The people just change their perception.

Relationships are on my mind and in my heart today.  I have all of these tools garnered over the years from college courses, books and counselors on how to let go, heal, etc. and yet do we ever really heal?  And most importantly, do we ever fully let go?  I don’t get it.  I am not that kind of person capable of doing so apparently.  How do you remove from your body, from your heart and mind someone with whom you have had a connection? The pain never fully goes away.  Like death, you just get used to it and find a place in your body in such a way so that it doesn’t take up too much space. It isn’t like I intentionally make the choice to cling on.  It just happens.  I’ve done countless exercises in cutting those psychic cords ~ and yet energy cannot be destroyed.  It cannot be forgotten.  It cannot be fully removed. Just at its best, transformed.  Understood.  Accepted for what it is ~ eternal.

Relationships ~ they don’t end.  They just transform into something new based on the person’s perception.  In that simplicity I can find my peace. The song below always comes to mind when I feel the twinges of pain from those no longer in my day to day life.  I have been the one hurt and the one who has done the hurting.  In all of that complex stuff, I wish all peace.  And in the song, some comfort…

(To PRN~ we know what really happened to you…  Always keeping your music alive…)

A Vision for Intimacy

 

The Vision Alignment Project

A Vision for Intimacy

We see a world where it is common knowledge that people can come together intimately and experience true Oneness through their coupling. We see all fears and barriers to healthy lovemaking having been replaced by a sacred respect for what two people can create when they come together in love with one another.

For we have learned that, not only is there a pleasurable aspect to our lovemaking, there is also a spiritual aspect to it, as well. And we see this spiritual aspect being taught to us from the time we are ready to learn about “the birds and the bees” – so that, now, we sometimes couple for pure physical pleasure, a feeling of closeness, and/or to conceive our children. However, at other times, we consciously set the stage for a higher kind of intimate experience: one that, with a little practice, will connect to the best feeling life has to offer: one that will connect us, not only to our partner, but to our Oneness with God at the same time.

 
As you line up with this Vision, it becomes your Vision too! 
You can align with this Vision
by double-clicking the “YES!” Button below.

 

Clicking the YES Button will also show you the Total Alignments.

THE MORE PEOPLE WHO ALIGN WITH OUR VISIONS
THE QUICKER THEY WILL BECOME A REALITY FOR ALL OF US.
WE INTEND OVER THREE MILLION ALIGNMENTS!

FOR THE HIGHEST GOOD OF THE UNIVERSE,
MOTHER EARTH, OURSELVES AND EVERYONE EVERYWHERE

Diane Canfield ~ Psychic Energy Report: January Ancestral Merging of Consciousness

 

January 1, 2018

 

 

By Diane Canfield

Blessings Divine Tribe,

January 1st starts us off with a Full moon in Cancer at 9:24 pm ET. Leading off from this Full moon, we have been experiencing many Ascension consciousness raising symptoms. When we experience these symptoms we KNOW our consciousness is expanding in the Ascension process.

Some of these have been extreme tiredness that has been going on for a few weeks now since before the December Solstice.We are still in the period in between waves where we are processing the energy that has come through since the TIME LINE Shift I reported in October. October through December have been full of energy downloads due to this major shift in consciousness. These energy downloads are not waves but instead subtle energy transmissions that continue to raise our consciousness.

Hot and Cold spells are also occurring. Just when we think we are too hot and turn off the heat or turn on the air conditioner- depending on what the location is we are in, we then become too cold. It rotates through out the day and seems to be worse in the evening, as most Ascension symptoms become worse after 9:00 pm.

Many more insights have been coming in right before this Full Moon, and you may feel a magical feeling with this. You may now have answers to questions you didn’t even ask yet. You may feel more connected than ever. This is what the full moon will bring in this year. This is the Divine Feminine Energy I have been describing that is starting to come in full force now and will makes itself very known to ALL in 2018. Watch for this all year long with every full moon that occurs.

With this new energy, you may find yourself drawn now to rituals and dancing under full moons. This is all part of bringing back our ancestral roots that were taken from us long ago. Our ancestors now call to us to get back to get back into balance with the harmony of the Earth as this has always been the role of the Divine Feminine.

We can invite our Divine Masculine Brothers now into this role to share with us as they are now becoming ready to shed their past roles that no longer serve themselves and others. They too are starting to open to their own ancestral rites of passage as we move into 2018. You will start to see this more and more as the Divine Masculine takes their role as protector of the Divine Feminine and Divine Children on Earth. They will soon start to make major changes within themselves and the planet, securing the rights of all living consciousness.

Vivid Dreams have been accompanying us on our Journey through December and into the First full moon of 2018. These dreams have been much more than dreams but instead completely preparing us for our new roles as Conscious Co- Creators of the NEW EARTH. What no longer serves is shown in our dreams and manifest then in our real life to be discarded. This can run the complete gamut of revisiting old relationships or patching up new ones that have been off track.

January brings us many new insights and ways of being and sets the ENTIRE tone for us for the rest of this year.

January 16th brings us our first New Moon of the year at 9:17 pm ET. We will have  a Full Lunar Eclipse on January 31st at 5;50 Am ET. combined with a second Full Moon called the Blue Moon in Leo on January 31st at 8:27 AM ET

All of these events will be very powerful and we will want to be fully engaged in these events all month long. You may want to make a note of all of these events as to be fully engaged in all of them. We need all the participation all Energy Workers we can get to help raise the consciousness of the planet. Take note of the Fairy Realm that opened last year and use this consciousness in any and all rituals going forward.

I am forecasting many Energy Surges in January due to all of these planetary events and to get the attention of the Divine Feminine and Masculine  in their very important roles going forward.

Note: You may feel ancestral pullings just from reading my articles as those that follow me have seen,  as I am being pulled deeper and deeper into this calling. Many of you will also be pulled into this as the Ascension becomes deeper within You.

Stay Tuned for more psychic articles going into even more details about what is coming for all of us in the NEW EARTH Consciousness.

 

In Service and Love

Diane Canfield

About the Author: Diane Canfield is a Gifted Psychic, Ascension Expert, Energy Expert and ET Contactee, having had many in person visitations from many different races of our Star Family. She works to elevate the consciousness of the Human Race to evolve into the Galactic Race. Her psychic gifts started in childhood and were reactivated in 2000 when visited by a Pleiadian Mother Ship which encoded her for her role as a Galactic Ascension Teacher. Since this time she has been in constant contact with the Galactics and the Interplanetary Advanced Council Of Light.

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The Vision Alignment Project ~ A Vision for the Healing of Families

 

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The Vision Alignment Project

A Vision for the Healing of Families

The following Vision comes to you from Pernille Therkildsen in Denmark. Thank you so much, Pernille, for sharing your beautiful Vision with us. We intend that it goes out far and wide, and that the world is a better place because of what you have written here.

We envision a world where all families have come together in love and peace. All pain, blaming of others and injustice is forgiven, and we realize that we are here to help and love each other. We accept that we are all on different paths and are therefore reminded that there is no such thing as judgment of one another. We no longer separate ourselves from our family – we create integration, revealing our true selves in pure compassion for our mother, father, sisters, brothers, children, cousins and everyone else that we have relations with.

When we meet each other on our way, we see others shine their true light as we ourselves shine back, creating even higher vibrations of love and truth. Happy families all around the Earth join each other in helpfulness and for the highest of all good. We exist for the sole purpose of happiness within ourselves and our relations: families, friendships, and partnerships.

 
As you line up with this Vision, it becomes your Vision too! 
You can align with this Vision
by double-clicking the “YES!” Button below.

 

Clicking the YES Button will also show you the Total Alignments.

THE MORE PEOPLE WHO ALIGN WITH OUR VISIONS
THE QUICKER THEY WILL BECOME A REALITY FOR ALL OF US.
WE INTEND OVER THREE MILLION ALIGNMENTS!

FOR THE HIGHEST GOOD OF THE UNIVERSE,
MOTHER EARTH, OURSELVES AND EVERYONE EVERYWHERE

James Gilliland ~ ECETI News New Year’s Eve Edition

 

I hesitated sharing this but decided to as the overall message is useful.  I take issue with what he has to say about angry women ~ how he does not wish to be around women who are angry at men. Instead of owning how he as a male has been a part of this anger women feel towards men, he passes the baton off to the women to fix ~ the women who don’t hold the anger or level of anger.  Talk about bypassing responsibility.  I am not suggesting women stay in this energy of anger ~ I am stating men AND women must step up and offer help.  Men MUST step up and admit they fell for the illusion of the patriarch and their own suppression of their masculine energies, which became corrupted and lead to eons of power over and control of the female.  There is absolutely no sense in denying this and James just did a disservice by dismissing and discounting this very real experience.  He has no clue what it is like to have been a woman in this experience ~ not in this incarnation cycle that is.  So come on James ~ own your part of the equation and your participation in the game/experience. Own when you have been out of alignment with Who You Really Are with women.  Make amends. YOU as well can ask a woman in pain and anger “what created your experience”.  That is indeed a part of your own healing.  To suggest all healing must be as a result from the Self is naive.  Yes, healing comes from within but it also must include some love and service from without as well.

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New Year’s Edition

Using Rational Thinking Concerning Psychopathsl

is not Logical

**by James Gilliland**

December 26, 2017

**We are seeing false icons fall in all walks of life.**

**We are truly living in a world of opposites**

We are seeing false icons fall in all walks of life. We are truly living in a world of opposites. People being exposed on the highest levels in politics, the movie, music and business industries of ungodly actions to say the least.

We are watching a total implosion of the democratic party in its death throws, lashing out with accusations without merit mainly due to the fact that the majority of it has deep ties with the deep state. Some of these extracurricular activities include satanic worship, child sacrifice, pedophilia, money laundering and extreme bribes, pay to play. The corruption became so abhorrent it is taking the military to clean it up. That is the basis behind the last presidential decree declaring a State of Emergency and the right to secure the assets of the extremely corrupt.

**As even a blind man/woman can see those entrusted to protect and serve within the system on the highest levels only protect and serve themselves. .**

As even a blind man/woman can see those entrusted to protect and serve within the system on the highest levels only protect and serve themselves. The agencies have not been carrying out their mandates, they’ve been serving the few not the many. This is going to change and I hope the socially CNN programmed and the ignorant will see the contradiction, the hypocrisy, the sense of entitlement wake up and smell the coffee. Things are not going to go their way. There is a much bigger plan unfolding and it is coming on high.

**I find it incredulous, almost unbelievable, people still demand we continue on the same path – some for the sole reason of having a woman in the White House.**

This is where the psychopaths come in. If they had their way and the democrats won the election – by using the woman, race card, give-away programs, going along business as usual – America would end up in social and economic collapse. They were fast-tracking to WW3. They are the beast or servants of the beast. Even if it means their own demise. I find it incredulous, almost unbelievable, people still demand we continue on the same path some for the sole reason of having a woman in the White House.

Do the research into the woman you hold on your pedestal. Some of the other women especially those screaming the loudest, have the most to lose by being exposed as to some of their despicable behavior and I must say it was not motherly.

**We need to stop judging people by their gender or their color but by their consciousness, their actions and track record of service to humanity and the Earth.**

I would also do some research into the last African American in the white house. He actually still thinks he is president. He was African not American self-admitted and what he will be charged with will be unbelievable. They have both sold out the people they represent and are responsible for the pain, suffering and death of thousands if only by withholding the funds earmarked to help disaster victims not to mention creating and arming our enemies.

This race card division game needs to end. We need to stop judging people by their gender or their color but by their consciousness, their actions and track record of service to humanity and the Earth. There cannot be double standards. Either you are creating heaven on Earth and adhering to Universal Law or you are not despite the slick rhetoric.

Have you noticed the ones making the most and loudest accusations end up falling upon their own swords?

Have you ever noticed most of these dark hearts never answer a straight question? They evade the question, project it on someone else then attack the credibility or character of the one asking the question. Have you noticed the vast majority of their accusations and information turn out to have no merit, no evidence yet people continue to believe them if it fits their agenda? Have you noticed the ones making the most and loudest accusations end up falling upon their own swords? They have to the extreme done what they accuse others of doing.

When the curtain is pulled back belief systems will be turned upside down.

In the days to come we are going to get answers and ring side seats of what is behind the curtain. When the curtain is pulled back belief systems will be turned upside down. What many thought was happening may very well be the opposite. That is when the healing will come and we are going to have to have compassion for those misinformed and misled. This does not mean a reality check is not in order.

I also want to commend the women who are stepping forward, standing in their power while maintaining that beautiful divine feminine energy. It is like a long, awaited wave of healing much appreciated and needed.

Although I tossed my TV out eons ago what I am seeing on the internet fills my heart with great admiration. They are far and few between in the lame stream media. They are mostly found at alternative media and though some find it hard to believe Fox News. They deal with facts and research while the others seem to deal with a controlled narrative furnished by the deep state. Watch _The View_ – a sad example and embarrassment to womanhood.

The women filled with hate towards men have missed the real issue and when they project that hate how can they expect love in return? That is really what they are crying out for. You can’t force or demand love. If you fit into this category you also can’t continue to deny the fact that it was lack of love that formed your present belief system.

**We can’t hide the wounds or fix them externally. We can only heal ourselves from within.**

We can’t hide the wounds or fix them externally. We can only heal ourselves from within. One cannot march for peace if you are not at peace, war on hate expecting to win anything other than more hate. Be a victim without expecting to be victimized. Hateful, vengeful wounded women with a following create what? Not my idea of heaven. It all boils down to personal responsibility, personal healing, working internally verses externally. When your internal healing is done then you can work on the external. It is the only way out.

So, you powerful ladies out there why not help your fellow women out. Ask them what happened? What happened to make them so angry and bitter? Ask them what they need to heal. Ask them why they gave up something so beautiful, the loving, joyous wise nurturing energy of which they are masters. It is the source of their power. Bitterness and “againstness” are not the sought-after gifts of a woman.

If I pushed some buttons, provoked some thought I did it out of love and service. One thing I do know however is they are not my buttons and just who is defending them, and why? I also know the buttons are not real. Enjoy the illusion. I am hoping I never have to write another article like this in the coming new year. Let’s make Atlantis and Lemuria great again.

**Let’s make Atlantis and Lemuria great again.**

Be well and enjoy the new year, it’s going to be quite a show. Fourth of July will come early.

Pass this on far and wide.

James Gilliland

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