“Before you diagnose yourself with depression or low self-esteem, first make sure that you are not, in fact, just surrounded by assholes.”
1. Assholes Are Happy With Their Stupidity…
They are more than happy to dwell gloriously in their stupidity and “teach” others about something that they know nothing about.
2. Assholes Are Obnoxious And Loud…
Most of the assholes I’ve met were not able to hold a proper conversation. They didn’t understand the ‘give’ and ‘take’ that a conversation requires.
They take-over, shout, monologue, and invade your personal space as if the world revolves around them, and they are the only ones that have something interesting to say.
3. Assholes Are Selfish Bullies…
Assholes are just selfish.
They dismiss other’s opinions and values for they care only about their own.
They even ridicule other people’s feelings and ideas, only to make themselves feel important as if their ideas and feelings are the only right ones.
How can you help and heal yourself?
Assholes can be found everywhere: in your school, among your closest friends, your emotional partners, or among family members.
The best you can do is to be honest with yourself and see people’s true colors and not your idealized picture of them. Starting to recognize assholes is the first step to getting your self-esteem back and start the healing process.
Taking action is the second step that you need to take. Even if the asshole is your cousin or your sister, even though you cannot change that fact, you can always take action and remove yourself from their presence, or at least reduce their presence in your life.
Then, start taking care of yourself. Eat well, get enough sleep, get a new hobby… anything that makes you happy. Be strong and love yourself. Don’t let assholes ruin the wonderful relationship that you have with yourself.
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