My latest healing help from Neurotoned.  I appreciate this information as it puts a body-perspective on our healing.  Often in this awakening process/spiritually focused piece, we forget that we still have these physical bodies.  I see it far too often.  While once we leave this reality our bodies do not come with us, I believe energetic imprints FROM our bodies do go with us, at least inside this place, which is why we can carry trauma from past experiences.  I see regulating/healing the Nervous System as a necessary, essential part of our Awakening.  And you can tell your nervous system all of the loving thoughts you want – which is important of course – until it feels safe – it will continue to communicate otherwise.  (BTW anyone have a recommendation for a weighted blanket?  Affordable?  I am in need of one (or two).)

💖🙏

Victoria

“Here’s how to become a sensory detective in your own life:

The Environmental Audit Technique:

Pick one space where you spend significant time but don’t feel quite right. Now assess it through your eight senses:

Vestibular Assessment: Does the space feel spatially confusing? Are there visual elements that create movement or disorientation? Ceiling fans, busy patterns, or flickering screens can all disrupt your inner ear’s balance system.

Proprioceptive Assessment: Can you clearly sense your body boundaries in this space? Spaces without clear edges, defined seating, or adequate pressure contact can leave you feeling ungrounded and floating.

Interoceptive Assessment: Does the space make it easy or hard to notice your internal signals? Temperature extremes, air quality issues, or chronic low-level stress can disconnect you from hunger, thirst, and emotional awareness.

Visual Assessment: Where do your eyes want to rest? Spaces without visual “landing spots”—calm, neutral areas where your gaze can settle—keep your nervous system in scanning mode.

Auditory Assessment: What’s the acoustic landscape? Even seemingly quiet spaces often have hidden noise pollution: HVAC systems, electrical hums, traffic sounds that create subconscious stress.

Tactile Assessment: How does the space feel against your skin? Air quality, humidity, temperature, and even the texture of furniture all send signals to your nervous system about safety or threat.

Olfactory Assessment: What does the space smell like? Synthetic fragrances, cleaning products, or poor ventilation can trigger stress responses you might not consciously notice.

Gustatory Assessment: Does the space affect how things taste? Poor air quality or stress responses can actually alter taste perception and appetite.

The Grocery Store Protocol (that works everywhere):

Before entering any potentially overwhelming environment:

Step 1: Sensory Preparation – Spend 30 seconds in your car doing the Orient-Pressure-Exhale sequence we talked about before. This gives your nervous system a baseline of safety to return to.

Step 2: Intentional Entry – As you enter, consciously scan for three things that feel neutral or pleasant. This helps your vestibular system orient to the space as “navigable” rather than “chaotic.”

Step 3: Body Check-ins – Every few minutes, press your feet firmly into the ground and notice your breathing. This maintains proprioceptive awareness and prevents complete sensory hijacking.

During sensory overwhelm:

The Bathroom Reset – Find the bathroom (usually the quietest, most contained space available). Place your hands on the counter, press your feet into the floor, and do three slow exhales. This interrupts the overwhelm cascade and resets your nervous system.

The Phone Fake – Pretend to check your phone while actually doing the Orient-Pressure-Exhale sequence. This gives you a socially acceptable way to regulate in public without drawing attention.

The Strategic Exit – If overwhelm becomes too much, step outside or to your car for 60 seconds. The change in environment often provides immediate relief and perspective.

Advanced Environmental Optimization:

Once you understand how your nervous system responds to different environments, you can start making strategic changes:

Lighting Modifications: Add lamps with warm bulbs to counteract fluorescent lighting. Use task lighting instead of overhead lights when possible.

Sound Masking: Use consistent white noise, nature sounds, or instrumental music to mask chaotic environmental sounds.

Visual Anchors: Create calm spaces for your eyes to land—blank walls, plants, or simple artwork that doesn’t compete for attention.

Pressure Points: Add weighted blankets, firm cushions, or other proprioceptive tools to spaces where you spend significant time.

Air Quality: Use air purifiers, plants, or essential oil diffusers to improve the olfactory environment.

Temperature Regulation: Create microclimates with fans, space heaters, or layered clothing options.”

🎀𝓘 𝓪𝓹𝓹𝓻𝓮𝓬𝓲𝓪𝓽𝓮 𝓽𝓱𝓮𝓼𝓮 𝔀𝓸𝓻𝓭𝓼 𝓪𝓫𝓸𝓿𝓮. 𝓣𝓱𝓮𝔂 𝓪𝓻𝓮 𝓬𝓸𝓶𝓯𝓸𝓻𝓽𝓲𝓷𝓰 𝓻𝓮𝓪𝓼𝓼𝓾𝓻𝓲𝓷𝓰 𝓪𝓷𝓭 𝓿𝓪𝓵𝓲𝓭𝓪𝓽𝓲𝓷𝓰🎀

How many of you wake up around 3am – in a state of panic – or worried – mind racing?  I’ve experienced this for most of my life and probably many if not most of you have as well.  Today I read something that explains the reason behind this and what we can do to help change this pattern.  And it all comes down to our Nervous System.

I have seen that until we take our Nervous Systems along with us on our healing journey, we will be missing a necessary part of our healing.  It’s much like trying to drive a car with a faulty electrical system.  There are still going to be issues no matter how mechanically sound the car is.

This morning, I was greeted to this gem below in my e-mail box.  I love this company.  They are very well-versed in the nervous system, trauma and healing, their approach aligning with decades of research as well as with the woman I see each week.  Their approach is compassionate and gentle. They also have support groups, a one-time 30 day nervous system program (that you have access to forever so no pressure to do it all in 30 days) and other paid programs/courses.

So give this practice a try the next time you wake up at 3am in a panic.  (And speaking of our Nervous System – today Trump called out the truth on vaccines:  They are all poison.  Thimerosal.  One of the areas in which this toxin damages our bodies is the Nervous System.  I will share that info later today in my daily finds.)

🙏💖

Victoria

Your nervous system may have been lying to you about why you can’t stay asleep.

It’s not your bladder. It’s not your age. It’s not even anxiety, exactly.

It’s something most sleep experts never mention because they don’t understand how your nervous system actually works during the night shift.

Between 2-4 AM, your body goes through what researchers call the “vulnerability window”—the time when your nervous system is most likely to misinterpret normal body signals as threats.

Your autonomic nervous system runs a sophisticated security scan every 90 minutes throughout the night.

Like a guard doing rounds, it checks all systems: breathing, heart rate, temperature, blood sugar, muscle tension.

Most people’s nervous systems complete these checks and return to sleep mode seamlessly.

But if your threat detection system is running on high alert from chronic stress, sensory overwhelm, or unresolved activation—which describes most sensitive, trauma-informed women—those 3 AM security scans trigger a false alarm.

Your body interprets normal sleep processes as danger signals.

The slight drop in blood sugar? Threat.

The natural shift in breathing patterns? Threat.

The way your nervous system processes the day’s sensory input? Threat.

Instead of staying in restorative sleep, your system jolts you awake with a surge of cortisol and adrenaline, leaving you lying there with your mind racing about tomorrow’s to-do list.

The conventional advice completely misses the point.

Sleep hygiene protocols tell you to avoid screens, keep your room cool, try melatonin, practice “good sleep habits.”

But none of that addresses the root issue: your nervous system doesn’t feel safe enough to stay asleep.

And here’s the part that will change how you think about sleep forever…

Your nervous system’s threat detection doesn’t shut off when you close your eyes.

It continues monitoring through eight distinct sensory channels all night long. The three hidden senses we talked about before—vestibular, proprioception, and interoception—are actually MORE active during sleep because your conscious mind isn’t there to override their signals.

Vestibular disruption during sleep can happen from something as simple as your pillow height throwing off your inner ear’s spatial orientation. Your brain interprets this as “falling” and triggers a wake response.

Proprioceptive confusion occurs when your body can’t clearly sense its boundaries in bed. Without adequate pressure and contact points, your nervous system can’t confirm that you’re safe and contained.

Interoceptive overwhelm happens when your internal monitoring systems detect changes in heartbeat, breathing, or temperature and can’t determine if they’re normal sleep fluctuations or signs of danger.

The 3 AM wake-up isn’t random—it’s your nervous system asking for help.

What if instead of fighting those middle-of-the-night wake-ups, you could teach your nervous system to feel safe enough to stay asleep?

Here’s what most people don’t know about the sleep-wake cycle:

There are specific sensory inputs you can give your nervous system BEFORE sleep that communicate “it’s safe to stay down for the night.”

And there are specific sensory interventions you can use at 3 AM that help your nervous system settle back into sleep instead of spiraling into full activation.

The Pre-Sleep Sensory Safety Protocol:

Step 1: Weighted Contact – Before getting into bed, spend 60 seconds applying firm, steady pressure to your body. Press your palms into your thighs, hug yourself with sustained pressure, or place a heavy pillow across your torso. This gives your proprioceptive system clear information about your body’s edges and boundaries.

Step 2: Spatial Orientation – While lying down, slowly turn your head left and right 3-5 times, then gently trace the edges of your pillow with your fingertips. This helps your vestibular system map your sleeping space and reduces the likelihood of spatial confusion during sleep transitions.

Step 3: Internal Regulation – Place one hand on your chest, one on your belly, and take 5 breaths where your exhale is twice as long as your inhale. This activates your parasympathetic nervous system and gives your interoceptive awareness a calm baseline to monitor throughout the night.

The 3 AM Reset Protocol:

If you do wake up, resist the urge to check your phone or start problem-solving. Instead:

Ground First – Before your mind can spiral, press your feet firmly into the mattress and your palms into the bed. Hold this pressure for 30 seconds while breathing slowly. This interrupts the activation cascade and reminds your proprioceptive system that you’re safe and contained.

Orient Gently – Without moving your head much, let your eyes trace the familiar outlines of your room. This gives your vestibular system updated spatial information and helps distinguish “safe sleep space” from “unknown threat environment.”

Breathe with Awareness – Place one hand on your heart and breathe at the pace of your heartbeat. This synchronizes your interoceptive monitoring systems and often naturally leads back into sleep.

The science behind why this works:

When you give your nervous system clear, consistent sensory information that communicates safety, it can complete its security rounds without triggering false alarms.

Instead of your brain receiving mixed signals that require conscious interpretation, it gets three simultaneous “all clear” messages:

“I am securely positioned in a familiar space” (vestibular + proprioception) “My body is calm and my internal systems are stable” (interoception) “This is a known safe environment” (visual + spatial orientation)

Your nervous system stops treating normal sleep processes as potential threats.

Here’s what changed for Sarah, one of our community members:

“I’d been waking up at 3AM almost every night for two years. I tried everything—sleep studies, melatonin, meditation apps, even sleeping pills. Nothing worked consistently.

When I learned about the sensory safety approach, I was skeptical. But I started doing the pre-sleep pressure and orientation routine.

The first night, I still woke up at 3 AM, but instead of lying there for two hours with my mind racing, I used the grounding protocol. I was back asleep in 15 minutes.

Within two weeks, I was sleeping through the night most nights. When I do wake up, I know exactly how to help my nervous system settle back down.

The difference is I finally understand what my body was trying to tell me. It wasn’t broken—it was just asking for the right kind of safety information.”

This isn’t about fixing your sleep schedule.

It’s about creating a relationship with your nervous system based on understanding rather than fighting.

Your 3 AM wake-ups aren’t a sleep disorder—they’re your nervous system doing exactly what it’s designed to do when it doesn’t feel safe enough to stay vulnerable.

The real transformation happens when you start working WITH your nervous system’s protective instincts instead of against them.

That hypervigilant, sensitive awareness that keeps you awake? It’s not your enemy.

It’s a sophisticated early warning system that just needs better information about what’s actually safe.

When you know how to speak to your nervous system in the language it understands—sensory input, spatial awareness, and internal regulation—sleep becomes collaborative instead of combative.

Your nervous system has been trying to keep you safe all along.

It’s time to help it understand that sleep is the safest place of all.

With care,
Beth from Neurotoned

P.S. The next time you wake up at 3 AM, try the grounding protocol before reaching for your phone. Press your palms and feet firmly into the bed, trace the edges of your pillow with your fingertips, and breathe at the pace of your heartbeat. Your nervous system might just surprise you with how quickly it can settle when it feels truly held.