Some Thoughts on New (authentic) Relationships

editor’s note:  i align so much with what she shares below.  those of ya’ll who have been coming around to this page for awhile already know my thoughts on this “service to others” program.  when we DO from authentic divine Heart space, we serve.  ourselves.  others.  doesn’t matter.  we don’t live from that “should/give away self” space in the new.  that stays here.  and i also align w/her thoughts on marriage and raising children.  they have called marriage an “institution” for a reason.  the heart and Soul innately choose freedom to BE/DO.  i for one as well as my mate will be happy to see all of this change/transform.  we need a break!  lol  (not just from each other but from the traditional means of raising a child.  NEVER meant to be done in isolation or alone.)

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Christie Hanalei
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Traditional relationships and the unspoken rules therein… are just another, very pervasive, form of imprisonment* on this planet.

Unless I am being soul-based in my relationships, I am just in another prison. I can’t be totally soul-based in a relationship, if the other person is not. Or if there is too big a gap in soul/ life awareness, between the other person and myself. This is what this soulmate has been challenging in me, so that i solidify more in my knowing* of this truth.

This is no longer the age of “shoulds” or old rules based in shoulds ♡

Also… we are moving from monogamy to polyamory. Polyamory is our natural state. Also bi-sexuality. I believe we have been being light-coded for polyamory and bi-sexuality in the last years. Why? Bc this was our original template. Back in Lemuria and Atlantis, we were this way. We were more in androgyny/ bisexuality (aka a reflection of our oneness self-state-of-being)… and we had relationships with multiple souls at a time based on soul expansion or soul compatibility. Relationships were not to “form” a structure like joint finances, joint home, joint time with children, emotional co-dependence… no… it was just for inherent* purposes*… it was about Soul Connection. Children were brought up in communities, none of this constant responsibility of a child on parents… This is unhealthy and insanity-making.

The soulmate i been writing about… is in more of a traditional template of relationships. They also have emotional co-dependence. I could feel it in his energy, and like I’ve said before I never was interested in him, but it’s like my higher self “made” me have very strong feelings for him, so that i could resolve these subtleties on relationship alignment. And this was harder for me bc he was hiding his beliefs on relationships with me, bc he knew I was far less traditional than him. But, energy doesn’t lie (for too long), and so I sensed the subtle manipulation he was using to try to get me to be with him. My ultimate answer to him has always been NO bc I need to be with someone who matches* my Soul. Period. But as I said, my higher self was really maximizing any feelings I had for him, so that it would be a motivator for me to dive deep and see the underlying patterns, and to solidify my truth (my Source-codes on the topic). Maybe now that I’ve seen the patterns between me and him to a deep level at this point, maybe my feelings for him will just naturally fade. Finally giving me some peace. Whew!

Even if this is not over, at least I’ve come to another level of being de-matrixed when it comes to relationships, and feeling strong here. Especially relationships based on financial security and based in emotional need. This is what I’m clearer on now, as a result of this experience with this soulmate. I always knew this stuff of course, but it was really getting into these subtleties for me that needed a tweak.

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This is the era, not of shoulds, but of self-love and joy. Doing things from soul-based-joy and not from matrix based prisons-of-the-soul.

Also we are not “service to others”… another program… we just ARE. The new temolates/ paradigm is service-to-self, but not in a harmful or narcissistic way that often these young souls/ non-living souls are doing. But service to self, based in loving energy of self, is where we are at. I’ve been coded for this for a long time. We are not “for” servicing others. We are not a means to any end. WE* are* the* point.* And oddly enough, this helps the planet more than we know, bc as others see our codes on this, it makes it more likely for the rest of the planet to function from this place as well. We are no longer in the age of “working” to create a change. But BEing the change JUST BY by being in the new* codes/ templates OF self-oneness, life as soul-based joy, Self as the focal point of our reality, self-nourishment, self-acknowledgment, following our inner compass despite what anyone else says. It’s challenging given that I haven’t manifested resources to do this but I do it as much as I can And my templates/ codes here are much more solidified here from the past few years of de-matrixing myself. FULL self-love and self-acknowledgment, will be much* easier to do after the Event ♡•♡•♡•♡•

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The event 2018. Going home. Music is the translation of love. 85 views 14 0 SHARE

 

editor’s note:  so beautiful.  and very much needed.  music does soothe the soul.  i listened to quite a bit earlier this evening.  this one is just a huge hug for the heart.  enjoy.  (to see the lyrics, click on the “you tube” icon w/in the video to go to her page – in the comment section she shares the lyrics.  they are quite profound.  [wp-svg-icons icon=”heart-2″ wrap=”i”]

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New 5D Relationships

 

by Meg | Jun 7, 2018 | Blog | 0 comments

New 5D Relationships

While living in the 3D Matrix, an entirely distorted reality dominates the collective consciousness perpetuating human ‘halves’; men and women seeking to unite and merge with each other to become whole again. Men who have yet to integrate all their yin energy are deficient and plugging into women’s sexual energy. Women who are deficient in yang energy are dependent on men for more masculine energy. The 3D relationship is outward seeking, parasitic and taking energy from others. This is not a system that supports human bonding or trust…far from it!

3D relationships are driven by dependency and controlling the other person…leading to fears of loss, repressed expression and deep-seeded resentments. This is a ‘lack program’, creating separation, loneliness and yearning for someone to ‘complete’ us. 3D relationships do not sustain healthy intimacy when both individuals are needy, desperate, lonely and empty inside. Relating in Duality is outdated and dysfunctional. Humanity needs to evolve into 5D relationships of harmony and collaboration – to relate to each other as whole, integrated Beings that enhances loving connection, personal growth, authentic expression and joyous fulfillment.

As we ascend into higher consciousness, we shift our focus and awareness to relating in the Now! It requires being Present, conscious, paying attention, listening, expressing your truth, offering support, allowing and honoring. It does not involve controlling, demanding, judging, criticizing, reacting, manipulating, or over-powering others. It does not include taking energy from others.

This Saturday, June 9th we will explore the complexities of 5D relationships. What is a conscious relationship? What are the steps required to relate to others in the 5D reality? I will join Manette in our New Earth Central show to prepare for the powerful stargate initiations into 5D living. If you cannot attend the ‘live’ broadcast, the replay will be available at the event link. The recording is accessible within minutes upon completion of the show broadcast. Register to attend here: https://newearthcentral.com/?p=122507

Lovingly, Meg

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INFP Personality

 

i took this test in my mid 20’s and my results put me in the category of the INFP.  tests over the years, both brief and detailed, have continued to put me in this category.  most know i don’t like labels, but when something resonates, it serves a purpose.

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INFP PERSONALITY (“THE MEDIATOR”)

INFP personalities are true idealists, always looking for the hint of good in even the worst of people and events, searching for ways to make things better. While they may be perceived as calm, reserved, or even shy, INFPs have an inner flame and passion that can truly shine. Comprising just 4% of the population, the risk of feeling misunderstood is unfortunately high for the INFP personality type – but when they find like-minded people to spend their time with, the harmony they feel will be a fountain of joy and inspiration.

INFP personality

Being a part of the Diplomat personality group, INFPs are guided by their principles, rather than by logic (Analysts), excitement (Explorers), or practicality (Sentinels). When deciding how to move forward, they will look to honor, beauty, morality and virtue – INFPs are led by the purity of their intent, not rewards and punishments. People who share the INFP personality type are proud of this quality, and rightly so, but not everyone understands the drive behind these feelings, and it can lead to isolation.

All that is gold does not glitter; not all those who wander are lost; the old that is strong does not wither; deep roots are not reached by the frost.

J. R. R. Tolkien

We Know What We Are, but Know Not What We May Be

At their best, these qualities enable INFPs to communicate deeply with others, easily speaking in metaphors and parables, and understanding and creating symbols to share their ideas. The strength of this intuitive communication style lends itself well to creative works, and it comes as no surprise that many famous INFPs are poets, writers and actors. Understanding themselves and their place in the world is important to INFPs, and they explore these ideas by projecting themselves into their work.

INFPs have a talent for self-expression, revealing their beauty and their secrets through metaphors and fictional characters.

INFPs’ ability with language doesn’t stop with their native tongue, either – as with most people who share the Diplomat personality types, they are considered gifted when it comes to learning a second (or third!) language. Their gift for communication also lends itself well to INFPs’ desire for harmony, a recurring theme with Diplomats, and helps them to move forward as they find their calling.

Listen to Many People, but Talk to Few

Unlike their Extraverted cousins though, INFPs will focus their attention on just a few people, a single worthy cause – spread too thinly, they’ll run out of energy, and even become dejected and overwhelmed by all the bad in the world that they can’t fix. This is a sad sight for INFPs’ friends, who will come to depend on their rosy outlook.

If they are not careful, INFPs can lose themselves in their quest for good and neglect the day-to-day upkeep that life demands. INFPs often drift into deep thought, enjoying contemplating the hypothetical and the philosophical more than any other personality type. Left unchecked, INFPs may start to lose touch, withdrawing into “hermit mode”, and it can take a great deal of energy from their friends or partner to bring them back to the real world.

Luckily, like the flowers in spring, INFP’s affection, creativity, altruism and idealism will always come back, rewarding them and those they love perhaps not with logic and utility, but with a world view that inspires compassion, kindness and beauty wherever they go.

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ECETI ~ JEDAR FOR 24 YEARS OF YOUR DIVINE HEART

 

editor’s note:  as someone who has experienced the passing of a very close dog companion, i can only say i feeeeeeeeeeel deeply on this one…  and 24 years…. wow!  [wp-svg-icons icon=”heart-2″ wrap=”i”]

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JEDAR

FOR 24 YEARS OF YOUR DIVINE HEART

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Aloha all…it is with hearts filled both with sadness and with joy of celebration that we share with the ECETI Community that our beloved Jedar – in many ways the Shaman of ECETI – transitioned from the Earth Plane around 4:45am this morning.

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Jedar often referred to endearingly as the ECETI wonder dog. He passed at 24 and lived a wonderful life touching many hearts at ECETI. As you can see by the photo he was not your average dog. He was named after an Andromedan Afa Jedar and lived up to the name. He was a corgy blue healer mix. Appeared in the ECETI documentaries, has his own facebook page and has watched as many come and go from ECETI. He told us he was leaving in the next two days and true to his word he passed leaving a legacy behind. He was truly a healer and mentor of both dogs and humans. It is important to not send any sadness or sorrow concerning this event. Send love, joy, bliss and gratitude. Having had my own near death experiences I am happy for him, a bit relieved that he is now free and did not suffer. It will be a bit strange after 24 years not seeing him every morning, although he did get a bit grumpy in his later years but I am sure in time we will all come to realize he never left in spirit and is just a thought away. We are hear for just a blip in history when compared to our eternal souls. Might as well make the best of it. Jedar is now

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The Mirror Effect Of The Empath & Why Some People Instantly Dislike You

 

Editor’s note:  I know some of you can relate to this one as well…  Years ago a woman I knew at the time told me people were going to be uncomfortable around me because I am “too real” and that being an empath creates the mirror effect which is scary to those not into self awakening/self-awareness.  

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We have all experienced it, being around someone who has either taken an instant dislike to us, or a bizarre resentment suddenly appears in those we have known for some time.

There may be no clear reason for this change in their behaviour. No matter whether they try to hide their feelings or not, an Empath can sense their loathing and it does not feel good!

Someone taking a dislike to another is a completely normal and acceptable part of life. We are all different and there will always be some people we do not get along with, whether Sensitive or not.

What is often baffling to the Empath is why some people act in an animostic way towards them, when they know they are a likeable and trustworthy person.

Now other than the fact that some people will always want to take away the light of those who shine, I have come to discover there are three other reasons why people either cool off or take an instant dislike towards the Empath and they are:

They Act as a Mirror

Their Vibration is too Fast

Their Stillness is Wrongly Interpreted

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A Reflection on “Pure” Thoughts and Conflict in the New Realm

 

I’ve been thinking about something I heard earlier today in a video I watched.  The thought was we will not have any negative thoughts on New Earth.

I pondered that one.  That freedom loving part of me said “hey I want to be free to hold whatever thought I want!”  I reflected some more and asked for some guidance.  Here is what came through.

It is true we will still be free to hold whatever thoughts we wish to hold in our minds (whew!).  However, when the thought is one that serves only to judge self or another or is otherwise harmful/destructive, we will immediately feel that in our body and it won’t feel so good.  Unlike this realm, where our thoughts can go seemingly unnoticed by ourselves, that won’t be the same experience in a different frequency.  We will be much more aware and thus in-tune with/sensitive to such experiences.  Perhaps that’s why, as time passes, so many of us feel our minds are becoming almost a blank slate ~ often neutral ~ just in this state of Being (which can appear as zoning out, being totally out of it – or wonky as I call it).

(wow i am having a huuuuuuuuuuuuuge deja vu right now as in multiple experiences and dreams i have had are merging………..what a trip!!)

I am feeling ~ indeed hoping ~ the chattering monkey brain will be silenced. That feels like it’s a matrix program ~ one that will be removed (we will be released from) upon the event energies.

I wondered about conflict.  In this realm, the matrix rewards power-over. Energy siphoning.  When one attempts that at the higher frequency, the result is different.  I had a feeling when we engage in this, we will experience what the other person is feeling.  It won’t feel so good obviously.

It is these “this doesn’t feel good” experiences that will help us move away from these old habits.  Like quitting smoking or other harming habits that, while they may give us a quick rush, only harm ourselves in the end.  And how good it feels, in that end, to let them go.  [wp-svg-icons icon=”heart-2″ wrap=”i”]

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Sandra Walter ~ Crossing the Crystalline Bridges: Part One

 

Editor’s note:  The intensity of these energies is yesssssssss.  The shaking, the anxiety, the shaking (did I mention the shaking??).  Yes, yes and yes…

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Blessings Beloved Light Tribe ~

Obviously it has been an intense few weeks as this next light level flows in. This series of intel addresses the mulitidimensional levels of what is unfolding for the Ascension in this now. I AM about to travel to Sedona for High-Vibe gatherings, which feels well-timed as April provides unique interaction with the crystalline bridges to the New Earth experience. Kindwhile, this series of articles may provide clarity and support.

We are experiencing major releases of plasma light pulses. Ancient codes are stepping forth for higher timelines. Unlock what you planted here for Ascension, beloveds. The Crystalline Grid is adjusting the New Earth Grids for stability; Intend flow, ease and grace.

Meditate to feel the bliss, expansion and soothe the clearing activity. Focus on the heart as the energy field stimulation is very strong, especially for embodiers of the Christed frequency. The whole-body vibrations and surges will continue to amplify. Shake it til you make it!

Your lightbody is changing right now, don’t let the mind distract from this sacred transformation. Deep Soul group activity also present; we are migrating realities as a collective.

Note the activated heart torus expansion – like a big balloon of light. Spin crystalline-diamond-Christed light through these fields, it truly supports balance and integration. Extra water and oxygenation; we are purging the uncomplimentary DNA patterns and imprints from the cells. Release, weep, smile, we got this. It is safe to change.

This initial thrust of the Equinox wave lasts through April 7. Keep the focus on Highest Primary timelines for all. Join the SUNday Unity Meditations for collective amplification, balance and healing.

Crossing the Crystalline Bridges: Part One

Geomagentic storms were strong during the initial blows of these Cosmic Winds. Solar wind (plasma influxes) are consistent; a stream of higher vibrational Source-light-encoded light. Alignments during this passage assist the ever-increasing influx of these plasma delivery systems. This phase is different, however. Energies always rise, get stronger, that is the shift itself. This new frequency is revealing higher trajectories for many, which in turn levels up the collective Ascension.

As the planetary magnetics shift, it opens Gateways – ancient Gateways – for activation of Gaia’s crystalline core to radiate 5D activations. It also triggers awakened DNA and lightbodies to go into Ascension mode. This is why the body, mind, and emotions are so stimulated right now. This is the new light level consistently blooming, expanding us into the next creation which is already in place. New Earth Now.

This Divine Will influx is significantly altering the magnetics and grids of Gaia. Note the consistent solar wind and geomagnetic storms all throughout the Equinox influx from March 15. This is strong energy, powerful dimensional-shifting, consciousness-raising light. On the evening of March 16th I experienced six hours of watching the lightwave come nearer, activating extremely pure planetary and star toroidal fields in nearby systems. There were also vast fields of sparkling 5D-rainbow plasma flowing with this activity. More on that in the next article.

These pure phototonic deliveries are unlocking the magnetic stronghold which held old systems in place. As above, so below, Beloveds. Old game over, both externally and internally. This is why your lifestream is demanding change on a personal level. This is why you cannot create with the old energy, or why it feels uncomfortable to do so. Our higher trajectory, Primary Christed timelines, are doing what was intended; empowering the creators and active participants of this experience to raise all willing hearts into Unity consciousness.

Deconstructing the Old Architecture, the Old Storyline.

Think Universal, act local. The collective demands change on all levels. This is a reciprocal effect; the energies coming in create change, the Divine return of a pure experience of Source. Ascension is a command from Source; our entire Universe is shifting. The collective responds to the triggering light by seeking truth.

This has been going on for decades; the revelation of that which was hidden. The intensity increases; more light provides more exposure. As distortions, time-loops, uncomplimentary timelines and holographic inserts/imprints are removed, the collective consciousness catches up to the true level of light; the Divine Truth. Revelation begins to accelerate, the energies amplify, and our body-mind-spirit complex adjusts.

Part of the Gatekeeper credo is ensuring that everyone is provided with the opportunity to explore their Ascension without boundaries or control systems interfering with their path. This is what is occurring right now with Ascension. Everything is being cleared so that the collective experience of Ascension is wide open for exploration by all.

Anxieties and Insecurities

This current energy is aimed at global, palpable awakening and transparency. Insecurities, lack of confidence, emotional deep purging may get intense right now. Yes, it is part of the process and DNA/lightbody upgrades. However you may have noticed that it feels different, almost too intense in some moments. This is happening at the same time that many of us are experiencing intense bliss. Global magnetic shifts also alter your personal magnetics, however there is more going on.

As we move into unity consciousness, we can feel the collective field. Much of the insecurity, egoic clearing, and confidence challenges are a reflection of what is occurring behind the scenes. Those who believed that money and control were the most important thing, have no heart platform to stand on as the timelines shift. They feel they are losing everything by losing their material belongings, social status, financial status, or belief systems about how this was going to unfold. They are afraid of exposure and judgment. These HUmans have a deep ties energetically to nearly everyone on the planet. The core-shaking loss that they feel as the New Light takes over the plan is palpable.

We have experienced loss, reevaluation of all that we are, and the release of egoic-level attachments through our Ascension process. That same process is available to those who have chosen lower timelines. However, when it hits the powers-that-were in such a strong way, there are collective reverberations of those emotions and constructs being released. Those who are completely enamored and entangled with control-as-power, manipulation-as-power, are suffering. We must remember this is a collective release of what was created here, on overdrive.

There is much deep soul-searching as old structures collapse. However here is the point of mentioning behind the scenes in this article: Because we are all One, because the energy is doing the exact same thing to our personal lives that it is doing to the old structures, and because those systems had energetic ties to the entire collective, we feel it removing the old foundational platforms based on control, ego, and survival. This effects us on an individual case-by-case, person by person level. Clemency, forgiveness, emotional and psychological breakdowns from those transparency operations are palpable.

The energy does the same thing to our journeys as it does to larger operating systems. The questioning, the doubts, the fears, the insecurity, the lack of confidence … You see that this is all a reflection of what is happening on a mass scale. When folks at the top feel wounded and insecure, we feel it too. It teaches us empathy and compassion. In order to fully become a Christed being, we demonstrate non-judgment and forgiveness. False confidence or a false sense of power are falling away. This allows us to re-examine everything in this new light. Constructing new realities as we de-construct old ones is a mighty task for the lower Self. Have patience, follow the flow of this new light and let it change you.

Addiction to the old reality is breaking apart. Mental, physical, emotional, and spiritual distortion is surrendered so the palpable experience of a new path may be attained.

Spiritual Maturity, Spiritual Disclosure

The challenges to our spiritual maturity, our hearts, our relationships, releases the magnetics of the past. If you feel un-glued, that is exactly what is happening in your fields (and Gaia’s). Yes, the filters for our Ascension get finer and finer as we go through this process. That has been consistent. However this year, when we’re dealing with larger numbers in the awakened collective, the experience dissolves storylines and beliefs about who we were, and how we were going to walk through this.

This is a beautiful Mastery initiation to infinite possibility. We place our hearts on the feather scale. What has been learned and did we apply it properly? Is there anything that needs to shift to accommodate the higher trajectory?

We keep refining what we are in order to merge with our Higher True Self. Those of us feeling and creating this pull to the higher level, must respect and honor it. The High-Vibe Tribe reaches out multidimensionally to create highest outcomes for all.

Relationship with Source: Apply Multidimensional Awareness to Everything

Our relationship with Source is tested. Relationship issues are a reflection of the relationship with Self, which is a relationship with Source. The Divine searches for its own reflection, amplifies the Sacred mirrors and corrects distortion.

As this pure Source light returns, we deeply honor our relationship with Source. We feel and honor our relationship with creation, everything as God, as Self. Our relationship to Source is completing and aligning relationships in form because the Higher Self relationship is purifying with Source.

We are learning during this bifurcation process how realities are separated, and how they arise into something else. We remember our ancient creation, and how to create again in alignment with Source. We are reaching for the highest truth, the highest expression. Anything which limits the full expression of your highest trajectory is exposed.

Focus on multidimensional awareness and apply it to everything that is presenting in your lifestream. All situations, interactions, emotions, behaviors, words, projects, and creations. This is the emergence of our consistent presence as one unified consciousness. Everything traverses dimensions; apply this knowledge directly to what is presenting.

The new light level can be intense in some moments; both intense bliss and intense realignment with the Christed/Crystalline/Unity timelines. Our vibrancy is tested. Authenticity is tested. Spiritual maturity is tested. Oversoul groups are raising as many as possible into the higher experience with ease and grace. The brighter we glow, the easier it is for others to see the light.

Primary Christed timelines are very high vibrational creations, and by quantum effect they raise our experiences into zero point. Remember they are a part of bridging the worlds; we use them to Ascend to 5D. As always,the vibrational pass-key is the Christed/Crystalline HUman Heart.

In Love, Light and Service,
Sandra
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