editor’s note: i align so much with what she shares below. those of ya’ll who have been coming around to this page for awhile already know my thoughts on this “service to others” program. when we DO from authentic divine Heart space, we serve. ourselves. others. doesn’t matter. we don’t live from that “should/give away self” space in the new. that stays here. and i also align w/her thoughts on marriage and raising children. they have called marriage an “institution” for a reason. the heart and Soul innately choose freedom to BE/DO. i for one as well as my mate will be happy to see all of this change/transform. we need a break! lol (not just from each other but from the traditional means of raising a child. NEVER meant to be done in isolation or alone.)
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Christie Hanalei
Traditional relationships and the unspoken rules therein… are just another, very pervasive, form of imprisonment* on this planet.
Unless I am being soul-based in my relationships, I am just in another prison. I can’t be totally soul-based in a relationship, if the other person is not. Or if there is too big a gap in soul/ life awareness, between the other person and myself. This is what this soulmate has been challenging in me, so that i solidify more in my knowing* of this truth.
This is no longer the age of “shoulds” or old rules based in shoulds ♡
Also… we are moving from monogamy to polyamory. Polyamory is our natural state. Also bi-sexuality. I believe we have been being light-coded for polyamory and bi-sexuality in the last years. Why? Bc this was our original template. Back in Lemuria and Atlantis, we were this way. We were more in androgyny/ bisexuality (aka a reflection of our oneness self-state-of-being)… and we had relationships with multiple souls at a time based on soul expansion or soul compatibility. Relationships were not to “form” a structure like joint finances, joint home, joint time with children, emotional co-dependence… no… it was just for inherent* purposes*… it was about Soul Connection. Children were brought up in communities, none of this constant responsibility of a child on parents… This is unhealthy and insanity-making.
The soulmate i been writing about… is in more of a traditional template of relationships. They also have emotional co-dependence. I could feel it in his energy, and like I’ve said before I never was interested in him, but it’s like my higher self “made” me have very strong feelings for him, so that i could resolve these subtleties on relationship alignment. And this was harder for me bc he was hiding his beliefs on relationships with me, bc he knew I was far less traditional than him. But, energy doesn’t lie (for too long), and so I sensed the subtle manipulation he was using to try to get me to be with him. My ultimate answer to him has always been NO bc I need to be with someone who matches* my Soul. Period. But as I said, my higher self was really maximizing any feelings I had for him, so that it would be a motivator for me to dive deep and see the underlying patterns, and to solidify my truth (my Source-codes on the topic). Maybe now that I’ve seen the patterns between me and him to a deep level at this point, maybe my feelings for him will just naturally fade. Finally giving me some peace. Whew!
Even if this is not over, at least I’ve come to another level of being de-matrixed when it comes to relationships, and feeling strong here. Especially relationships based on financial security and based in emotional need. This is what I’m clearer on now, as a result of this experience with this soulmate. I always knew this stuff of course, but it was really getting into these subtleties for me that needed a tweak.
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This is the era, not of shoulds, but of self-love and joy. Doing things from soul-based-joy and not from matrix based prisons-of-the-soul.
Also we are not “service to others”… another program… we just ARE. The new temolates/ paradigm is service-to-self, but not in a harmful or narcissistic way that often these young souls/ non-living souls are doing. But service to self, based in loving energy of self, is where we are at. I’ve been coded for this for a long time. We are not “for” servicing others. We are not a means to any end. WE* are* the* point.* And oddly enough, this helps the planet more than we know, bc as others see our codes on this, it makes it more likely for the rest of the planet to function from this place as well. We are no longer in the age of “working” to create a change. But BEing the change JUST BY by being in the new* codes/ templates OF self-oneness, life as soul-based joy, Self as the focal point of our reality, self-nourishment, self-acknowledgment, following our inner compass despite what anyone else says. It’s challenging given that I haven’t manifested resources to do this but I do it as much as I can And my templates/ codes here are much more solidified here from the past few years of de-matrixing myself. FULL self-love and self-acknowledgment, will be much* easier to do after the Event ♡•♡•♡•♡•
Thanks for posting this. I can really relate to a lot of what was said.